For all you single men here are some more tips for making a good first impression with the ladies: 

Cleanliness is next to godliness so they say but in my book it is the single most important thing when going out socialising with everyone other than your mates who are more likely to forgive a bit of body odour.  Guy’s we won’t!  Jump in the shower just before you get ready.  Use aftershave, we love it BUT don't overdo it - we want to smell it when we get close to you not be knocked out by it at 20 paces!!

For more advice and to book a consultation email me at mary@maryerrington.co.uk or call me on 07766 466 688. 

• Choose one of your assets to accentuate not all of them.  Otherwise why would he want to date you again?  He has seen it all the first time and in his mind if he likes what he sees he will want to cut to the chase so to speak.  A bit of mystery holds a man’s interest more than anything else. 

• Aim for looking approachable rather than too perfect and polished - that can be scary for men.  They want to look after you and protect you not feel intimidated by you.

Shoes! Right guys it is not ok to throw on a pair of trainers, however new and bright white, to go out.  Trainers are for the gym or for exercising not dating.  We do look at shoes and judge you on what we see.  They should be clean and appropriate for the rest of your outfit.  Work shoes aren’t right either.  Invest in some great casual shoes and wear them!  Clean socks every day and ones that match your trousers.  Not white, not jokey, not sports socks.

• For more advice and to book a consultation email me at mary@maryerrington.co.uk or call me on 07766 466 688.

Wear a fantastic shirt which fits well, is freshly laundered and ironed for the night out.  T shirts generally look a bit casual unless they are designer and even then they need to fit well and be a good colour.  Footy T shirts are a big no no for us girls.  Bad enough that you are obsessed with the game, don’t remind us when you are out with us!